Treat the Disabled with Respect and Compassion

The writer believes that a beautiful camaraderie
makes life  wonderful journey. 

            The article “Equality with a difference” (The New Sunday Times, April 5) unveiled the truth about the treatment and judgment by some members of society towards those with disabilities. Yes, reality bites, but it is unjustified and even uncivilised to rob someone of the right to live a discrimination-free life. 

            It is strange how some people think that humans are not perfect and that everyone has strengths and weaknesses, humility and humanity are not evident in their actions. 

When feelings of sympathy and empathy are absent, it will, consciously or subconsciously, give a chance for negative attributes and attitudes to fill in the space. The repercussions, unfortunately, are undesirable, unfavourable and unthinkable.

            Sometimes we focus too much on the importance of equality between people of different races, religions and hierarchies, forgetting those who may be lacking physically but are special in the eyes of God. We need to realise that no matter how rich, educated, sophisticated, successful and healthy we think we are, we have flaws. To declare ourselves as good people, even when we treat others nonchalantly and disrespectfully, is ridiculous.

            As a nation that is looking forward to 2020, we have been making amendments and improvements to strengthen our economy, politics, education, health and security. Yet, we seem to put little effort into “upgrading” good manners. I believe a developed nation should comprise caring, loving and responsible citizens with positive mindsets, perceptions and thoughts.

            We need to stop perceiving the disabled as being less important, for they will always be part of us, no matter what. 

            A true Malaysian is considerate and compassionate. So, let's treat our disabled brothers and sisters respectfully, as, at the end of the day, we are all humans with flaws – be they hidden or obvious. Just like others, the disabled community shares the same hopes and dreams – to be seen, heard and appreciated.

Courtesy of New Sunday Times

19 April 2015