Balik kampung is a
phenomenal term in Malaysia, especially during festive seasons. Even its mere
mention can leave someone on cloud nine as childhood memories
come rushing back. However, the recent controversy over discouraging the
public from returning to their hometowns for the festive season to reduce financial expenditure has created chaos on social media, as many vent their frustration and
dissatisfaction. I agree with Mazlena Mazlan who
discussed the matter in her article “The power of social norms and
persuasion” (NST, July 8).
Every country has its own social
norms that signify acceptable behaviour in a group of people. So does
Malaysia. In some countries, it is a tradition to
gather with family and friends for Christmas, Thanksgiving and New Year’s
Eve, in the spirit of togetherness, gratefulness and prosperity.
Likewise, Malaysians build camaraderie and strengthen their relationships with
loved ones through religious and cultural celebrations. With Hari Raya just
around the corner, the Muslim community especially is looking forward to reuniting with family members, relatives and acquaintances in celebration of 1
Syawal - the ultimate glory after a month of fasting and resisting temptation.
Thus, refraining excited citizens from proceeding with their
plan to balik kampung will invite
negative reactions, leading to grouses and disharmony.
I believe that the lack of money should not be a
problem or an excuse for us to discontinue our long-time and noble practice of balik kampung. This is because it shows our efforts in
upholding strong values we are taught to maintain, with the hope that the next
generation will preserve the cultural tradition to prevent them from forgetting
their roots. For many unable to regularly visit their parents due to tight work schedules and other inevitable circumstances, Raya is the perfect time
for family gatherings.
Balik
kampung is important in a way that it can give us a break from the hustle
and bustle of the city. Such a lifestyle can lead to burnouts, depression,
conflicts and negative thoughts, especially when one fails to juggle obligations
of work and family, resulting in poor work-life balance. Our exhausted body,
mind and soul deserve a rest from the world of materialism where we are busy chasing dreams, accomplishing
goals and competing to emerge champions in life. Raya is a chance for us to
engage in healthy social interaction as we attend open house and mingle with
others, share stories, exchange information and forgive each other.
No matter how educated, wealthy and successful
we are and will be, we should always go back to where we come from. It is true
that there is nothing wrong with celebrating Raya away from home, but we will
miss a huge opportunity to mend what is broken, correct what is wrong and
appreciate those who love, remember and sacrifice for us the most. I don’t
think it is a good idea to resort to smartphones or social media to express
our love and ask for forgiveness from our parents, as the feeling will not be
the same.
Courtesy of New Straits Times
10 July 2015
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