GLOBAL CRAZE (Taking Selfies Not A Selfless Matter)

The writer believes that a beautiful camaraderie
 makes life a wonderful journey. 

            Taking selfies is the latest trend in photography. The craze is a global phenomenon but it has also caused controversy when they are not taken only for fun, but in ways that are ridiculous, dangerous and unnecessary.

            These daredevils risk their safety while attempting to get the best poses. They need to realise that it is not a do-or-die decision. Instead of trying to impress others with their selfies, they can try other challenges that are safer, simpler and more satisfying.

            Those taking selfies or wefies may affect those around them. A mother taking a selfie while shopping can put her unattended children at risk, or a man taking a wefie while driving can put his family in danger.

We should not wait until it is too late for apologies and regrets. For example, the controversy involving a graduate who took a selfie on stage during his convocation must face the music for his insensitivity, disrespect and ignorance of policy, procedure and protocol. This proves that taking a selfie will become a public issue when those taking this trend to a new level make wrong decisions that result in chaos, dissatisfaction and grouses.

            Taking selfies may have caused mishaps in the past, but as long as people know when and where to take them, problems will not arise. Unlike those who dare breaking rules to take selfies, smart people will not try to do it in an unthinkable way.

            Some are so ambitious that they land themselves in trouble. They try to be the best, to be able to do something others are not able to. But, are they doing it in the right way and for the right reason? Is the competition healthy and does it make them better people? Or are they driven by the desire to meet their unreasonable expectation to feel satisfied, accomplished and proud of themselves, which others may view as an obsession or narcissism?

            One thing for sure, this is not how we think outside the box or to make a difference. Even if somebody has turned taking a selfie into an interest, it should be a joyful hobby, not a harmful habit.     

Courtesy of New Sunday Times

7 June, 2015