Every Child is Special

The writer believes that a beautiful camaraderie makes life a wonderful journey.

Children are born with different talents, abilities and skills to help them survive the world when they grow up. Their unique personalities make them special in their own ways. Thus, it is crucial to understand that when these children go to school, no one is actually better than anyone else. As good and sensible citizens, we should not belittle and discriminate students who do not excel in examinations. Parents and teachers too should stop comparing one child with another. If this happens, the child will develop inferiority complex and it will kill his or her self-confidence. Clearly, this doesn’t help the child to polish their hidden potential buried inside.

With national public examinations just around the corner, UPSR, PT3, SPM and STPM candidates are struggling hard to reach the target set by the school. Remedial classes and academic camps are making students’ schedule packed just to ensure that they will score the maximum number of As in the examinations. In consequence, the pressure takes place and the fun in learning is slowly washed away. This is the reality the students need to face to satisfy every hoper and well-wisher.

            I remember watching “Taare Zameen Par”, a 2007 movie directed by a true talent Aamir Khan. It was about a dyslexic eight-year-old boy whom parents felt embarrassed as he flunked every test unlike his top-scoring elder brother. The parents failed to identify their younger child’s cognitive problems. He was then transferred to a boarding school just to meet an art teacher who managed to apply effective strategies to activate the boy’s intelligences. The teacher discovered that the boy was gifted with visual intelligence that allowed him to develop his artistic skills brilliantly.

            According to the book “Frames of Mind: The Theory of Multiple Intelligences” published in 1983, Howard Gardner proposed the idea of Multiple Intelligences with seven distinct intelligences to highlight; Visual, Linguistic, Logical, Musical, Kinesthetic, Interpersonal and Intrapersonal.  Children are believed to possess all the intelligences and they are likely to be prone to some intelligences that determine their learning styles and ways of thinking. In this case, I am proud of the teachers who vary their teaching methods as it shows that they are concerned about the students’ needs and learning preferences. This will make students enjoy the learning session even more.

            As an English teacher, I am usually assigned to teach last classes of both lower and secondary forms. Majority of the students are not well-off and their social background affects their view of education and their interest in learning. They are perceived as a bunch of rule breakers who would only tarnish the school reputation. Problematic learners always agree that rules are meant to be broken but they forget that determined teachers are always there to fix the broken pieces. The responsibilities are undoubtedly heavy and the tasks are challenging but it’s time for teachers to do some homework. This is the opportunity for teachers to take teaching to the next level by experimenting new tricks and techniques in the classroom. If there’s no pain, there’s no gain. Teachers might have to endure heartaches and headaches along the way but eventually, the passion the teachers build will result in the satisfaction money can’t buy.

In my humble opinion, obtaining good grades for primary and secondary education does not guarantee the students to maintain the outstanding achievement in their tertiary education. Failures are not losers. Thomas Edison, William Shakespeare and Bill Gates prove it all. They are perfect examples of successful people who didn’t make it during their school days.  

            Students should be encouraged to learn, not forced, to get straight As. Let them burn the midnight oil willingly. Motivate them the right way and the seeds of inspiration in them will grow naturally. Do not blame the gradual process, because Rome wasn’t built in one day.

Teaching is indeed a bittersweet journey. True teachers do not just teach. They learn from their students too, and the more they learn, the better they will become.

How HEALTHY Are Our Children? (An Article Made for New Straits Times)

The writer believes that a beautiful camaraderie makes life a wonderful journey.

Health is wealth. A healthy lifestyle is a contributing factor to students performing well in their studies. Thus, it is frustrating that many students in both primary and secondary schools are taking this matter lightly and that, they even enjoy leading an unhealthy lifestyle. I am currently serving my third school of my teaching career and this is what I observe every day.

The classroom environment is not motivating students to focus during the learning session and to build interest in subjects. Rubbish is everywhere. Tables and chairs are not neatly arranged, and the notice boards are not informative or properly utilized, let alone, decorated. Children will engage in the lesson less effectively to result in their low achievement in examinations. Filthy classrooms are not conducive to learning and invite boredom. In short, this is unhealthy.

When they go for a break, they tend to choose unhealthy food over balanced meals. Junk foods, crackers and carbonated drinks have become students’ daily fare in many schools. Even though they have been exposed with bad effects of consuming unhealthy food through motivational talks organized by schools, the useful information unfortunately falls on deaf ears. It is a guilty pleasure for them to indulge in those unhealthy snacks with artificial food additives and soft drinks that are high in sugar. Little do they know their frequent consumption of the unhealthy foods and beverages can cause more health problems that they ever realize.

 Apart from cleanliness and wrong food consumption, students are also unhealthy in their speech. The use of foul language becomes increasingly common among students when they share stories and discuss homework, and this is worrying. Teenagers are apparently more comfortable using swear words to their peers. If this continues, the next generation will grow up as people with bad manners and decency will become extinct. Worse comes to worst, Malaysia might be ranked lower when a research on politeness and courtesy is conducted.

This issue needs to be taken seriously to avoid having grown children following the trend. With the launch of Malaysia Education Development Plan (2013-2025) and the approaching 2020, we are responsible in helping our Malaysian students strive for excellence not just in their academic performance but also in terms of morality and attitudes. Parents need to practise smart parenting as they are the main educators of their sons and daughters. School authorities should brainstorm on effective strategies and plan special programs to decrease the number of students with unhealthy habits. The media also should attract students’ attention by promoting and encouraging healthy lifestyles on online platforms. Together, let’s do our part in producing quality individuals for the sake of our country’s future as that’s what a caring family member does.

        

 August 18, 2014

57 Years of Glory (Malaysia, Where Love Grows)

The writer believes that a beautiful camaraderie makes life a wonderful journey.

Malaysia is celebrating its 57^th Independence Day this year and it is special in its own way especially when the number 57 coincides with the year the country was declared free which was 1957. With the theme ‘Disini Lahirnya Sebuah Cinta’ (Malaysia, Where Love Grows), it lifts up the patriotic spirit among the citizens from all walks of life. The theme is meaningful, significant and most importantly close to the heart and it is undoubtedly perfect to promote love between the people and for the country.

For a long stretch of time, Malaysia has been praised and remembered for its beauty and the people are described as friendly, polite and helpful. The unique and colourful culture has attracted tourists from many countries and continents to choose Malaysia as their destination for holiday trips. The picturesque views of beaches, islands and mountains have made avid travelers leave the country with unforgettable experiences and happy memories. Our high profile landmarks too have become our signatures that are among the best in the world.  We even have world class athletes that make us feel prouder to be Malaysian.

Everything sounds wonderful but have we ever asked ourselves what we are still lacking? 2020 is just six years away and Malaysians need to be well prepared to face the long-awaited moment so that the plan our dearly former Prime Minister Tun Dr. Mahathir Mohamad tabled during the 6^th Malaysia Plan in 1991 will result in great success. Thus, we need to start reflecting ourselves when there is still time.  The 20 aspects highlighted below hopefully would open our eyes and help us answer the rhetorical question. Let us all be smart Malaysians in making the country a place with beauty and brains. After all, isn’t it what everyone votes for?

1)      ATTITUDES:

With right attitudes, Malaysia would be pollution-free and discrimination-free.

2)      MINDSET:

Malaysians should develop some maturity in setting minds because a mindset could affect the whole country and the entire generation.

3)      CONTRIBUTION:

Ask ourselves about our contribution for the country or haven’t we done something to correct what is wrong and to improvise what is satisfactory?

4)      ACHIEVEMENT:

Achievement is not something to brag, it’s something for the citizens to remember, be grateful of and be positively proud of.

5)      UNITY

Every Malaysian is a family member of another Malaysian. Thus, the unity should remain as one happy family through support, tolerance, patience and various cultural celebrations.

6)      DEVELOPMENT:

Being a developing country is good but being a forever developing country is bad. It shows how effortless Malaysians are in working just a little bit harder.

7)      SOLUTION:

Malaysia is quite famous for searching for a new problem for an existing problem. It’s not about pointing fingers to individuals. It’s about coming up with a mutual agreement as a solution.

8)      EDUCATION:

Education is a general term that enables one to think about what is right and what is not. Educated people give judgment in a form of either excuses or reasons, and sadly more Malaysians fall on the former than the latter form.

9)      HAPPINESS:

Being free is about being happy and many of us smile cynically than making it sincerely.

10)   CHARITY:

Charity always begins at home and Malaysia is our home for all of us to help the needy. That’s how we become an effective solution for their problem.

11)   BRIBERY:

When we develop our country based on bribery, it will work but only temporarily. Always remember that nothing is as easy and please don’t take things easily.

12)   COURAGE:

Courage is what makes both the country and the people in it, strong. Confidence is crucial to develop our determination and risks are to be taken in producing a nation with quality.

13)   MANNERS:

Manners are seen in behaviours and they are what everyone sees and notices. Now, look back and think on how well we have done in our manners subject. Is it an “A”, a “B”, a “C”, or worse?

14)   RESPECT:

Respect is not only paid during funerals. More importantly, it is needed when somebody is still alive. So, do we practice enough respect?

15)   RESPONSIBILITY:

No one lives without responsibilities. Carry ours well and we’ll have nothing to worry about for we know that we’ve done our portion.

16)   GAME:

We love to play safe. Yes, we won’t lose but we won’t win either. So, stop being afraid about losing and start planning on strategies to be the real champion because we’d love to drop happy tears for our victory.

17)   LOVE :

Love is not individual but mutual. It is to be shared and to be spread, not to be kept in a dusty box that you’ve even lost the key to unlock it. Hatred is unfortunately better loved by us.

18)   SENSITIVITY:

Sensitivity is a feeling that Malaysians lack. It happens when we include others in our own world to be considered and thought of. It’s important giving our country two words all countries around the globe always want; PEACE and HARMONY.

19)   CIVILIZATION:

It’s quite a frustrating fact that the old generation seems to be more civilized than the one living today. There might be the Age of Modernization but Civilization, never ages.

20)   PUNCTUALITY:

Malaysians have been left million miles behind for hardly being punctual in life, and we ‘manage' to uphold that ‘tradition’ until now. Think about it. Please.

I Am Proud To Be Malaysian (A Patriotic Poem by Muhamad Solahudin Ramli)

i am proud to be malaysian

 

The writer believes that a beautiful camaraderie makes life
 a wonderful journey. 

it was on this land

i started my life without a single friend

to be together with me to stand

till the moment He prepares me an end                                   

it was here

i know the alphabetical order

i know how to lead my life to the better

i know how to see the world clearer

to teach me how to be stronger

and how to live my life happier

relying on each other

respecting one another

recollecting the days i have drawn                                       

from the glorious morning I was born

till the grievous mourning when I am gone

there was nothing for me to yawn

nor to have a cynical scorn

for it’s the greatest place i have ever stepped on

Originally written on 5th August, 2008

Publicised on 7th August, 2014